Overview of Her First $100K — Episode 276: Get Your Dream Job (And More Money) in 2026 with Claire Wasserman
Claire Wasserman (Ladies Get Paid) joins Her First $100K to share practical, mindset, and tactical advice for getting paid what you deserve and finding work that feels aligned in 2026. The conversation blends negotiation strategy (market research, ROI framing, scripting), emotional and somatic work around money, networking and job-search tactics (target companies, outreach, fractional work), and day-to-day practices to sustain momentum. This episode is designed to be returnable reference material — full of scripts, actionable steps, and mindset shifts for women navigating pay conversations, career pivots, and burnout.
Key takeaways
- Know and own your worth — internal belief must be translated into external evidence and language.
- Treat yourself as “The LLC of Me”: position your role as a product/service for which you must prove ROI.
- Never base a compensation ask on personal needs (rent, loans); base it on company impact and market data.
- Always start with research: competitor pay, internal comp philosophy, and documented personal contributions (dollars, time saved, productivity gains).
- If you get “no,” treat it as “not yet.” Ask for concrete criteria and timelines (e.g., “What do I need to do in 3–6 months to reach market rate?”) and get it documented.
- Emotional and somatic work (money narratives, burnout, perfectionism) is essential — it shapes negotiation behavior and career choices.
- Networking beats passive job‑searching: target companies you want to work for, build relationships, and engage thoughtfully on platforms like LinkedIn.
- Consider fractional/consulting roles as alternative paths to income, skill-building, and future full-time offers.
- Use small, repeatable daily actions (projects, community, batching) to build momentum and skill.
Actionable steps (what to do next)
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Confirm whether you’re underpaid
- Collect 3+ market salary comparisons for similar roles/companies.
- Inventory your qualifications and quantify impact (revenue, time saved, efficiency, client retention).
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Prepare your negotiation case (the LLC of Me)
- Translate responsibilities into ROI terms (dollars/time/productivity).
- Prepare 3–5 specific examples/stories showing impact.
- Practice framing questions: “What is the compensation philosophy here? How do you decide top vs bottom of a range? Where do I fall?”
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Script the “not yet” response
- If denied, ask: “Can you outline exactly what I need to achieve in the next 3–6 months so we can revisit compensation?” Follow up by email summarizing the meeting and agreed milestones.
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Create a “beta opportunity” proposal
- Pitch a small, measurable project that demonstrates business impact and positions you for a merit increase.
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Network strategically
- Make a list of target companies + their competitors.
- Engage people in the departments you want (comment on posts, send concise, researched outreach).
- Outreach template (concise): “Hi [Name] — I enjoyed your [podcast/post/article]. I’ve done [relevant work/achievement]. Quick question: could you share how your team approaches [problem]? Happy to keep this brief.” (Ask for 5–10 minutes or an intro.)
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Build and show new skills daily
- Start a small, steady project (portfolio piece, blog, volunteer work or a short consulting gig) to demonstrate capacity and confidence.
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Manage time and energy
- Batch job-search tasks into short windows; set minimum weekly targets (e.g., 3 outreach messages, 5 applications, 1 networking coffee).
- Schedule joy/energy activities to avoid burnout and maintain presentation energy.
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Use tools wisely
- Use AI to draft and refine outreach, negotiation emails, and to translate achievements into business language.
- Track time and activities (Clockify) to align daily work with long-term adjectives/values for success.
Common mistakes and how to avoid them
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Mistake: Asking for a raise based on need or vague dissatisfaction.
- Fix: Base asks on market comps and company ROI; present a business case.
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Mistake: Shutting down after a “no.”
- Fix: Treat “no” as “not yet.” Ask for clear milestones and timelines; document them.
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Mistake: Waiting for a job listing to appear.
- Fix: Network into companies you want; target people and roles proactively.
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Mistake: Staying siloed and detached from company goals.
- Fix: Learn how your role impacts revenue, time savings, or other KPIs; propose projects to show impact.
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Mistake: Trying to “fake it” or hide parts of yourself (neurodivergence, nontraditional background).
- Fix: Integrate strengths into your story, tie them to business outcomes (bridge skills), and be strategic about what interviewers need to hear.
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Mistake: Charging hourly for consulting work.
- Fix: Price by project/outcome rather than time when possible — avoid penalizing speed/skill.
Short scripts & language to use (examples)
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Compensation philosophy opener:
- “Can you help me understand the compensation philosophy here and how you determine where someone falls in the range?”
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If denied:
- “I appreciate the feedback. Can we identify 3 measurable goals I should hit in the next 3–6 months to be considered for a market-adjusted raise? Can you document that for me?”
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Outreach (networking):
- “Hi [Name], I loved your [talk/post]. I recently did [brief relevant achievement]. I have one quick question about how your team approaches [problem] — would you be open to a 10-minute chat or short email reply?”
Mindset & somatic work (brief)
- Start with adjectives: define how you want to feel in a year (e.g., grounded, creatively inspired).
- Track daily activities against those adjectives; reduce what doesn’t align.
- Practice somatic checks: notice how alignment or decisions feel in your body.
- Use short practices to dial down internal critic (“turn off the soundtrack” card): don’t silence the thoughts; turn the volume down and create space between thought and action.
Notable quotes / insights
- “Everything is a negotiation, starting with yourself.”
- “Don’t ask for money because you need it — ask because investing in you returns value to the company.”
- “Treat yourself as your own company: The LLC of Me.”
- “If you’re doing only what’s in your job description, you’re already being paid for that work — to get more, prove extra impact.”
Resources & where to find Claire Wasserman
- CoachMeClaire.com (coaching & programs)
- Ladies Get Paid (podcast)
- Ladies Get Paid (book)
- Practice Deck (daily cards for reframing self-talk and somatic work)
Quick checklist (for the next 7 days)
- Gather 3 salary comps for your role.
- Quantify 3 specific ways you’ve impacted your employer (revenue, saved time, improved retention, processes).
- Draft a short compensation opener and a “what do I need to do” follow-up email template.
- Identify 5 target companies and find 3 people to engage with (LinkedIn comment, short message).
- Start one small, visible project you can iterate on and show within 2–4 weeks.
This episode blends tactical negotiation moves with inner work and sustainable job-search practices. Treat the takeaways as a toolkit: research + ROI framing + relationship-building + somatic practice = a higher likelihood of a better job and better pay in 2026.
