#838: The Random Show — The 2–2–2 Rule, The Future of AI, Bioelectric Medicine, Surviving Modern Dating, The Promises of DORAs for Alzheimer’s, and Wisdom from Anthony de Mello

Summary of #838: The Random Show — The 2–2–2 Rule, The Future of AI, Bioelectric Medicine, Surviving Modern Dating, The Promises of DORAs for Alzheimer’s, and Wisdom from Anthony de Mello

by Tim Ferriss: Bestselling Author, Human Guinea Pig

1h 51mDecember 3, 2025

Overview of #838: The Random Show — Tim Ferriss with Kevin Rose

This episode is a free‑form “Random Show” conversation between Tim Ferriss and Kevin Rose. Topics jump across personal updates (Tim’s new 2–2–2 drinking rule, dating, books), cutting‑edge mental‑health interventions (accelerated TMS, D‑cycloserine), sleep and Alzheimer’s risk (DORAs, tau testing, metabolic approaches), cognition differences (aphantasia), state of AI and investing, and a long list of practical recommendations (gear, apps, books). The tone is candid, pragmatic and anecdotal — mixing lived experience, early‑stage science, and actionable takeaways.

Key segments & takeaways

The 2–2–2 drinking rule & Anthony de Mello

  • Tim’s new moderation plan: maximum 2 drinks per night, never two nights in a row, and only 2 days per week (plus special occasions). Goal: reevaluate relationship with alcohol, reduce cravings, keep drinking meaningful.
  • Rationale & accountability: Tim intends therapist check‑ins and other guardrails; acknowledges the risk of slipping (e.g., travel/special occasions).
  • Philosophical note from Anthony de Mello (Awareness): strict abstinence/renunciation can paradoxically bind you to what you’re trying to avoid (“abstinence can become a trap”).

Action item: if changing drinking habits, set a simple rule, name accountability partners and track in sober states (e.g., decide not to drink in the morning for tonight).

Bioelectric medicine, accelerated TMS & D‑cycloserine (DCS)

  • Background: accelerated TMS (Nolan Williams / MagVenture, Brainsway) — compressing many stim sessions into days — can produce strong, rapid clinical effects for depression/anxiety when precisely targeted via resting‑state fMRI.
  • Tim’s experience:
    • First 5‑day accelerated TMS gave ~3–4 months of near‑zero generalized anxiety (self‑reported).
    • Subsequent boosters failed until he tried a compressed single‑day protocol (10 stim sessions, hourly) combined with preloading D‑cycloserine (DCS) lozenge → large clinical response again.
  • D‑cycloserine (DCS): an antibiotic repurposed in research as an NMDA glycine‑site partial agonist; used experimentally as a cognitive/plasticity enhancer and as an adjunct to therapy or stimulation. Early data only; possible side effects noted: temporary insomnia (1–4 weeks), transient motor changes, tinnitus in some.
  • Hypothesis: neuroplasticity preconditioning (e.g., prior plant ingestion/psilocybin or DCS) may enable stronger, quicker responses; DCS + TMS could compress treatments and reduce cost/access barriers.
  • Kevin & Tim: interested in funding and scaling research (small cohorts show signals; need randomized trials).

Practical note: these are experimental, frontier interventions. Discuss risks, informed consent, and supervise with qualified clinicians.

Sleep, DORAs & Alzheimer’s risk

  • DORA = dual orexin receptor antagonist (example: Belsomra). Unlike sedative hypnotics, DORAs inhibit orexin‑mediated wakefulness and may preserve more natural sleep architecture (REM/deep sleep).
  • Relevance to neurodegeneration:
    • Sleep is implicated in clearance of beta‑amyloid/tau; poor sleep increases risk of accumulation.
    • Some preclinical and early human data suggest DORAs may reduce markers of tau in spinal fluid (still early research).
  • Personal actions discussed:
    • Tim and Kevin considered/used Belsomra (costly; prescription), and discussed P‑tau blood testing to gauge risk/trajectory.
    • Lifestyle/metabolic strategies: ketogenic diet, exercise, exogenous ketones can produce temporary cognitive improvements in some patients; Dale Bredesen’s multi‑factor “End of Alzheimer’s” approach was discussed (target multiple contributing pathways).
  • Recommendation: talk to your physician about sleep interventions; if concerned about Alzheimer’s risk, discuss available biomarkers (blood tests for phosphorylated tau, etc.) and multicomponent prevention strategies (exercise, sleep optimization, metabolic health).

Action item: if family history of dementia, consider getting blood‑based biomarkers and prioritize sleep, exercise, and metabolic interventions in consultation with clinicians.

Aphantasia, hyperphantasia & differences in cognition

  • Aphantasia: inability to voluntarily form mental imagery (low single‑digit % of population). Opposite is hyperphantasia (very vivid imagery).
  • Tim: hypervisual — vivid mental images and spatial recall. Kevin: near‑aphantasia — experiences ideas kinesthetically/affectively rather than visually.
  • Compensation & cognition: people differ widely — some feel ideas, some “see” music (synesthesia), others have exceptional memory (see A.R. Luria’s The Mind of a Mnemonist).
  • Practical: understanding your cognitive style can help with learning, communication, creative work and empathy in relationships.

Recommended reading: The Mind of a Mnemonist (A.R. Luria).

State of AI — models, infrastructure & investing

  • Rapid iteration: models and capabilities are improving dramatically in months; opinions become stale quickly. Benchmarks (bar exam, coding, reasoning) are used; token/context windows and inference speed matter.
  • Google advantage: Gemini 3 was trained on Google TPUs (no NVIDIA GPUs) — shows value of owning hardware + software stack. Google has full stack, distribution (Android), talent.
  • Investment themes Kevin mentions:
    • Power & infrastructure (data centers, energy, perhaps small nuclear) because AI is power‑hungry.
    • Compute & hardware vendors (NVIDIA, AMD, TPUs).
    • Public data center plays and companies that will automate/streamline operations and thus balloon margins.
    • Avoid placing big bets on mega‑cap names at frothy valuations; instead: basket approach across infrastructure, compute, and companies that will adopt AI to cut costs/margin improvements.
  • Startup & product notes:
    • Entrepreneurs can create and ship products faster and cheaper — low barrier to prototyping AI products.
    • VC isn’t dead but founders are in stronger position; early capital dynamics shift.
    • Useful tools & startups discussed: Notion agents, NotebookLM, Sandbar (wearable/assistant concept), Oboe.fyi (auto‑generated learning courses), Sandbar, and AI assistants on headphones/rings.

Action items: assess founder/CEO AI adoption (is AI mandated internally?), consider infrastructure exposure, and think in baskets rather than single big bets.

Practical recommendations: gear, apps, books & gifts (short list)

  • Health/fitness tools:
    • Rubz (foot massage) ball — inexpensive for foot release.
    • Alpha Ball (Tune Up Fitness) — travel‑friendly myofascial tool.
    • Tank M3 push sled — best‑of‑breed sled (pricey, ~$1,500).
  • Everyday tools:
    • 25‑bit micro screwdriver set (magnetic insert) — ~$7–$10, pocketable and useful.
    • Maestry rechargeable milk frother (USB, variable speed) — good travel/coffee gadget.
    • Elgato Wave 3 microphone — favorite travel mic; high value for podcasters.
  • Apps & software:
    • Notion with AI agents (meeting transcription, searchable transcripts).
    • NotebookLM (for building a personal knowledge base and question‑answering).
    • Oboe.fyi — auto‑generated courses on any topic.
    • The Way app — guided meditation app with 30 free sessions (recommended for habit formation).
  • Books:
    • Awareness (Anthony de Mello) — recommended by both hosts.
    • Stop Fixing Yourself, Wake Up, All Is Well (Anthony de Mello) — audio recommended.
    • Tomorrow, Tomorrow, Tomorrow (Gabriel Zevin) — fiction about games, entrepreneurship.
    • Gold (Rumi, trans. Hala Liza Ghaffari) — poetry.
    • The Mind of a Mnemonist (A.R. Luria).
  • Sponsor products mentioned: Closi (prescription eyedrops for near vision), 8sleep Pod 5, David protein bars.

Modern dating & relationships

  • Modern app‑based dating is highly addictive by design; apps monetize retention and are engineered to keep users engaged.
  • Practical relationship advice:
    • Remove apps from phone (or limit use); be mindful of state before/after swiping.
    • Communicate early and explicitly: ask for what you want, name needs, and use simple frameworks (e.g., nonviolent communication) to reduce resentment.
    • Expect bumps; commit to doing the communication work rather than instantly moving on to the next swipe.
  • Quoted paraphrase from couples work: “Objective reality has no place in an argument” — the subjective emotional experience matters; arguing over objective measurements rarely resolves relational wounds.

Action item: if dating app fatigue sets in, remove/limit apps, clarify communication preferences early, and practice direct requests.

Notable quotes & insights

  • “Abstinence or renunciation can be as much a trap as anything else because it binds you to the thing you’re abstaining from.” — Anthony de Mello (as discussed)
  • Tim on drinking: “First drink goes a long way.”
  • On relationships (Terry Real paraphrase): “Objective reality has no place in a relationship” — meaning feelings and stories drive the conflict more than scientific adjudication.
  • AI perspective: “Forms of AI are improving every few months — don’t form a permanent opinion based on what they could do three months ago.”

Actionable next steps (if you listened for practical change)

  • Personal health
    • If concerned about dementia risk: discuss P‑tau blood tests and interpret with a clinician; prioritize sleep, exercise, metabolic health.
    • If struggling with anxiety/depression: research accelerated TMS programs (MagVenture, Brainsway) and ask clinics about adjunct strategies (DCS is experimental — seek specialists).
    • For sleep issues: consult physician about DORAs versus other hypnotics; consider sleep architecture impact.
  • Behavior & habit
    • Try the 2–2–2 drinking rule or design a simple, trackable drinking plan with accountability.
    • If using dating apps: set strict usage rules or remove them; practice early, explicit communication.
  • Productivity & learning
    • Try Notion’s AI agents or NotebookLM to archive/transcribe calls and query your notes.
    • Experiment with Oboe.fyi for curated, auto‑generated learning curricula on new topics.
  • Reading/listening
    • Start with Awareness (Anthony de Mello); consider the audio version of Stop Fixing Yourself.
    • Read The Mind of a Mnemonist if you’re curious about memory extremes.

Where to find more

  • Tim referenced his podcast with Nolan Williams (deep dive on accelerated TMS); check Tim’s podcast feed and show notes for linked episodes and resources.
  • Kevin notes newsletters and links at kevinrose.com (AI/gadget updates).
  • Matt Walker’s podcast episode on DORAs is recommended for deeper sleep/Alzheimer’s discussion.

This summary compresses the major themes, personal anecdotes and pragmatic recommendations from the episode. If you want the shortest actionable checklist from the episode:

  • Pick one sleep/actionable medical next step (P‑tau test, speak to doctor about DORAs).
  • Choose one behavioral change (2–2–2 drinking rule or dating‑app limits).
  • Try one productivity AI tool (Notion agents, NotebookLM or Oboe) and one small recommended gadget from the list.