The Grudge

Summary of The Grudge

by NBC News

40m•September 8, 2026

Overview of The Grudge

NBC News’ Dateline episode follows the July 2020 targeted shooting at the home of U.S. District Judge Esther Salas in New Jersey, where her 20-year-old son Daniel was killed and her husband, defense attorney Mark Anderl, was critically wounded. Investigators soon uncovered that the attack was part of a cross-country murder spree tied to Roy Den Hollander, a deeply misogynistic lawyer who left behind a manifesto, a hit list, and a long trail of resentment against women, judges, and other perceived enemies.

What Happened

  • On a Sunday afternoon, a man disguised as a delivery driver rang the doorbell at Judge Salas’ home.
  • Daniel answered the door and was shot immediately.
  • Mark was also shot multiple times while trying to help his son and identify the attacker.
  • Daniel died; Mark survived after emergency surgery.
  • At first, investigators did not know whether the judge, her husband, or Daniel had been the intended target.

The Investigation

Initial Leads

  • Local police, the FBI, ATF, U.S. Marshals, and other agencies launched a massive manhunt.
  • Mark, while intubated, communicated enough to confirm the shooter was a man posing as a delivery worker.
  • Witnesses described a tall, thin male wearing a mask and carrying a FedEx-style bag.

The California Connection

  • Days before the New Jersey attack, a nearly identical murder had occurred in California.
  • Lawyer Mark Angelucci was shot by a man posing as a delivery person.
  • Once investigators compared details, they realized the same weapon, method, and disguise were involved.

The Suspect: Roy Den Hollander

  • A dead man was later found in Rockland County, New York, with a self-inflicted gunshot wound.
  • In his car, authorities found dossiers on Judge Salas and Mark Angelucci.
  • The dead man was identified as Roy Den Hollander, a men’s-rights activist and attorney with a long anti-women history.
  • His computer contained a 1,500-page manifesto full of rage, grievance, and misogynistic rhetoric.
  • Den Hollander had been terminally ill, which investigators believe may have fueled a final violent spree.

Motive and Targeting

  • Den Hollander had a professional grievance related to a draft-registration lawsuit he believed Judge Salas was delaying.
  • He also had ties to the broader men’s-rights world, including Mark Angelucci.
  • Investigators concluded:
    • Mark Angelucci was murdered in California.
    • Judge Salas was the intended target in New Jersey.
    • Daniel was killed simply because he answered the door first.
  • The episode emphasizes that the attack was revenge-driven and carefully planned, not random violence.

Impact on Judge Esther Salas

  • Salas describes Daniel as her “miracle baby” and the center of her world.
  • She wrestled with guilt, wondering whether her judicial career had put her family in danger.
  • She later chose forgiveness, saying she forgave Den Hollander during a mass at home.
  • Seven months after Daniel’s death, she returned to the bench.

Legacy and Policy Changes

  • Daniel’s death helped drive public attention to the vulnerability of judges’ personal information online.
  • A bipartisan bill named after Daniel was introduced and later enacted.
  • The law aims to:
    • Improve security for judges’ homes.
    • Strengthen U.S. Marshals’ ability to protect judges.
    • Restrict data brokers from selling judges’ personal information, such as addresses and phone numbers.

Key Takeaways

  • The case was a chilling example of targeted violence fueled by grievance and misogyny.
  • A mundane act — answering a door — became fatal because of how exposed public officials and their families can be.
  • The episode argues that judicial privacy and security are not abstract issues; they can be matters of life and death.
  • Judge Salas channels her grief into reform, ensuring Daniel’s death leads to lasting protection for others.