Offset: Relationships, Risky Texts & Rap (FBF)

Summary of Offset: Relationships, Risky Texts & Rap (FBF)

by Alex Cooper

53m•February 6, 2026
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Overview of Offset: Relationships, Risky Texts & Rap (FBF)

This Call Her Daddy episode features Grammy‑nominated rapper Offset in a wide‑ranging, candid conversation with host Alex Cooper. They cover Offset’s upbringing, rise with Migos (including the surreal moment of “Versace” blowing up while he was in jail), his marriage and family life with Cardi B, parenting, rebuilding trust after public drama, sexual/relationship advice for listeners, and his new solo album Set It Off. The tone is informal, funny, and frank — mixing personal stories with blunt relationship and sex guidance aimed at the podcast’s primarily female audience.

Key topics discussed

  • Early life & rise to fame

    • Grew up in Gwinnett County / Atlanta area.
    • Became popular in high school; got arrested and spent eight months in jail around the time Migos blew up — first realized the song’s success from guards singing “Versace.”
    • Values the brotherhood and cultural impact of Migos.

  • Fashion & personality

    • Talks fashion preferences: subtle designer, dislikes loud logos and “mannequin” dressing; prefers understated drip.
    • Describes himself as confident, creative, fun but serious when needed; recently more open and expressive after experiencing a big personal loss.

  • Family, marriage & fatherhood

    • Married to Cardi B; they have children and are expecting another.
    • Prioritizes family, quality time at home, and setting up kids so they aren’t forced into the industry.
    • Cooksy and can braid his daughter’s hair — presents as a hands‑on dad.

  • Infidelity, reconciliation & trust

    • Acknowledges mistakes early in marriage; emphasizes that public shaming of private issues is harmful.
    • Rebuilding trust: be communicative, respectful of each other’s public positions, give grace and time to heal, and prioritize family impacts (especially on children).

  • Sexual and relationship advice (listener Q&A)

    • Porn concerns: don’t immediately snoop—observe patterns and search terms; consider whether bedroom dynamics need to change; communication about desires.
    • Drunk texting / unsolicited nudes: Offset suggests the recipient’s reaction signals compatibility; excessive drunk sexting can backfire; be mindful of image and intent.
    • Oral sex and foreplay: men should be gentle, focused on the clitoris, use hands/spit (not teeth), and prioritize the woman’s orgasm first — “the clit is the key to the mansion.”
    • On giving/receiving feedback: teach partners constructively rather than shaming.

  • New music / creative control

    • New solo album Set It Off — two‑and‑a‑half years in the making; vibe is fun with some serious moments; title signals provocation and confidence.
    • Collaborations include Don Toliver, Chloe Bailey, Lotto and Cardi B; Offset is heavily involved in creative direction (videos, hiring, etc.).
    • Wants fans to know he’s more than the music — a fun, engaged person who respects his female audience.

Notable quotes & soundbites

  • “Communication is key.” — on repairing relationships after infidelity.
  • “If you know, you know.” — on subtle fashion and taste.
  • “The clit is the key to the mansion.” — blunt emphasis on female pleasure in sex.
  • “Women are running this shit.” — crediting women for supporting music and culture.

Main takeaways

  • Offset is deliberately revealing more of his personality publicly now — aiming to be fun, authentic, and hands‑on creatively.
  • Family and children are central motivations for him, and he stresses accountability when mistakes affect a family.
  • Rebuilding trust after cheating requires time, open communication, and empathy; public criticism complicates private healing.
  • Practical sexual guidance: men should prioritize their partner’s pleasure, be patient and gentle, and accept constructive teaching without ego.
  • For fans: Set It Off is personal, confident, and meant to showcase Offset’s range beyond group work.

Actionable advice & recommendations (from Offset)

  • If you suspect problematic porn use: don’t just react—observe patterns and search history (to understand specific fantasies), then have an honest conversation about bedroom needs before assigning blame.
  • Drunk‑texted/explicit messages: own it if necessary, but understand that the recipient’s reaction may indicate compatibility; keep expectations realistic.
  • If your partner is bad at oral/foreplay: teach them kindly and clearly. Demonstrate what you like; constructive, patient guidance works better than shaming.
  • For creatives: take control of your vision when possible. Offset highlights overseeing his own videos and team to keep the project authentic.

What to expect from the album & where he’s coming from

  • Album title: Set It Off — described as fun-forward with bursts of seriousness and a celebratory, free spirit.
  • Favorites mentioned: “Worth It” (feat. Don Toliver) and a collaborative track with Travis (noted as dope).
  • He intentionally included female artists and songs aimed at female listeners and wants his music to be a backdrop to women’s lives (getting ready, going out, dancing, etc.).
  • Release push: merch and album rollout are active (merch on offsettears.com, album release noted as a Friday the 13th drop in the episode).

Who should listen

  • Fans of Offset/Migos who want a deeper look at his personal life and solo work.
  • Listeners seeking direct, unfiltered relationship and sexual advice from a male entertainer’s perspective.
  • Creators and musicians interested in artist control and album rollouts.

If you want a one‑line summary: Offset opens up about how family and accountability shape his life, gives blunt, practical relationship and sexual advice, and promotes a confident, personal new album that spotlights his creative control and appreciation for his female fans.